Why don't you start with the programming manual for your machine? Get it
here if your shop has lost it. I'd learn the maintenance manual too.
http://www.machinemanuals.net/index.php
For what you're doing, I'd learn to program at the machine and not mess with
ACAD, MCAM etc. to start with.(HUGE larning curve here) Any chance you can
find a local vo-tech that offers CNC training? Iv'e also seen on-line
machine CNC training.
Karl